Headero invites you to the NoS_x|S_xParty - a space for sexual exploration, without the pressure of s*x.

Imagine a time in a not-so-distant future, where consenting s*x is stigma free. When you are welcome to explore, to own your boundaries and to push beyond your limitations.

Imagine a place where you can learn and grow, to electrify and uplift yourself. In this space bodily autonomy is sacrosanct - it is deeply ingrained in the core of us.

This is where you say "yes" to new horizons because you feel safe leaving the harbor.

That future is now at the NoS_x|S_xParty.

What to Expect:

The moment you walk through the door you’ll be greeted by our fabulous hosts and safety staff who will be your guide and your support for this journey of exploration.

Next, perhaps you’ll grab a cocktail or mocktail while you listen to the pulse beats of the DJ setting your vibe for the evening. This is where you will allow your senses to fully take over. You catch a glimpse of someone being flogged on the Saint Andrew’s cross.

When you turn your head you realize you might have developed a affinity for watching in public. You make eye contact with someone across the room and nod. Because you know that tonight has already changed you for the better.

The Program:

Produced by SX Noir. With ambient entertainment and sxy* performances including:

🔥❤️‍🔥🔥 fangs of fire by Christy Belle

✨⚡✨ electric jungle by Lola Strange

👠😏👠 burlesque by Galexii

🫦🪬🫦 erotic tarot and poetry by Via LS

🪢🫠🪢 shibari by J

💆‍♀️❤️‍🔥💆‍♀️ massage by Blaine Petrovia

💥🤯💥feral mindf*ck by Haley Grace

With DJs : Bobby Ishak and Conrad Byer and Special Guest: Gabriella Alexis

Presented by Headero , the s*x positive app for oral pleasure.

Don't miss the film screening by afterglow, ethical pqrn made by women, enjoyed by everyone.

Who is Welcome:

If you’re new to kink this is for you. If you’re in the lifestyle this is for you. If you’re curious this is for you. If you’re LGBTQIA+ this is for you. If you’re BIPOC this is for you.

How to Show Up:

This is an event where you have permission to explore your boundaries within a safe and consensual kink space without the pressure to perform because s*x is off the table.

Come to this space with the intention of exploring your self, and supporting others as they do the same. Show care for this community by respecting our five principles.

Dress Code: Future-forward fetish, electric animalistic, jungle chic, pulsing pattern, neon taste. No casual wear, please.

What people are saying:

“The vibe is right. S_xy and welcoming.” — Austin NoS_x|S*xPartier

“It's definitely a vibe, with sexual liberation as the guiding principle of the inclusive fete.” TimeOut NY

“I was very… enchanted? I’ll need to think of the right words! I tried wax play and being flogged, it felt somewhat surprisingly nice! (I could go on and on)” — Brooklyn NoSex|SexPartier

“A gateway experience: Once you know the ins-and-outs of someone’s most intimate fantasies, the conversation can go anywhere” — Culture Map Austin

“I came, I saw, I didn’t c_m. 10/10” — Austin NoS_x|S*xPartier

At SXSW we had over 700 RSVPs and hit capacity within the first 30 minutes. Our last events in Brooklyn and Manhattan SOLD OUT.

The NoS_x|S_xParty is presented by Headero, the app for the mouthy. In partnership with:

afterglow, made by women, enjoyed by everyone.

Discover your desires with TikTok verified s*x coach Catherine Drysdale

Our Principles:

1. We are inclusive.‍ We are inclusive of people of all gender identities, sexualities, body types, ages, disability statuses, relationships statuses and sx worker statuses.*

‍2. We are s*x positive. ‍We are here to explore our sexual selves. Each person’s sexual journey is different, and so long as it is grounded in consent and safety, no one’s journey is to be stigmatized.

‍‍3. We are a community. ‍We show care for each other’s well being. We support each other on our journeys towards sexual liberation.

‍4. We are consent-grounded. ‍We recognize that bodily autonomy is fundamental, and that while consent is essential for sx, consent goes beyond explicitly sexual activities.*

5. We don’t have s_x at the NoSex|SexParty. ‍Our purpose is sexual liberation. We are here to expand our sexual horizons through art, dance, dialogue and connection. But this space is not for having s_x.

Note, this event is 21+ and photographers / videographers will be present.

Read more: About | Purpose | Principles | FAQs

Safety policy: 21+ only. Consent is paramount, and no violations will be tolerated. Always ask first before initiating any personal contact (and remember, this is not a space for s*xual activity).

FAQ: What does No S*x mean?

It means we don’t have s_x with each other AT the NoSex|SexParty so that more people feel comfortable attending. This means no s_x, including oral s_x, fingering, penetration with toys, etc. If you find someone who’s body you want to explore in greater detail 😏 after the event grab their number to arrange a rendezvous. Missed their number? Hop on Headero to find them afterwards 😉. Think of this event as the foreplay before the foreplay 💦✨💖

Headero Members:

If you're buying Headero Member tickets, please email community@headero.com with a picture of your completed profile and event receipt. You'll also need to show your Headero profile to our door person :)