STING NYC | Men’s Spanking Party

Men spanking men. Give. Take. Connect.

STING NYC is a Saturday afternoon spanking party for men where spanking is the heart of the experience.

Hands, paddles, straps, and other implements take center stage. From playful swats and over-the-knee spanking to heavier impact and longer scenes, STING gives you room to explore spanking at the intensity and pace that works for you.

THE EXPERIENCE

Give. Receive. Switch. Watch. Connect. Play.

With 12+ spanking stations, there’s room for different styles, positions, implements, and intensities throughout the afternoon.

Spanking stays at the center of STING, but other negotiated BDSM elements—including restraint, sensation, and power exchange—can be incorporated into scenes.

There’s also a separate social area for conversation, meeting other men, taking a break, and aftercare.

Sex isn't the focus of STING. Sexual activity may be incorporated into a scene when it has been clearly negotiated beforehand.

WHO IT'S FOR

STING is for gay, straight, bisexual, queer, and trans men who connect, play, or cruise with men.

Whether spanking is something you've loved for years, something you've only fantasized about, or something you're finally ready to explore, you're welcome to participate at your own level.

Come solo, with a partner, or with friends.

No partner required.

HOW THE AFTERNOON FLOWS

1:00 PM — Doors Open
Check in, settle in, meet other men, and start talking about what you're interested in exploring.

1:45 PM — Welcome + Room Agreements
We'll briefly review consent, expectations, and the flow of the afternoon.

After the welcome, negotiated spanking and impact play begins throughout the room.

Coming later? You're still welcome. Essential room agreements will be reviewed with you when you check in.

6:00 PM — Party Ends

COME READY TO PLAY

Bring any spanking implements, toys, gear, safer-sex supplies, or comfort and aftercare items you plan to use.

A shareable snack or drink for the communal table is welcome but never required. Alcohol is welcome in moderation. No illegal drugs.

Most importantly, talk to each other. Introduce yourself. Ask what someone is into. Tell them what you're looking for. Negotiate before you play and respect the answer you receive.

18+ | Men | Newcomers welcome

Tickets: $30 Solo | $50 Partners (2)

Studio125
113 East 125th Street, New York, NY
Second floor • Approximately 20 steps • No elevator

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Full STING NYC details at Studio125

Men spanking men. That's STING.