Xtasy returns with Tainted Love, a Valentine’s rave inspired by the darker sides of love, lust, and romance. This is a night for femmes, queers, $luts, kinksters, non-monogamous people, and lovers of dark intimacy to dance, explore, and fall apart beautifully together.

IMPORTANT ENTRY POLICY

Pre-sale tickets do not guarantee entrance. All guests are subject to a vibe check and strict dress code enforcement at the door. If you fail the vibe check or arrive out of dress code, your ticket will be refunded on the spot. We reserve the right to deny entry for any reason in order to protect the space and community.

MUSIC

Upstairs DJs
girl_irl (NYC): Acid and cunty techno

Jenny Fox: Latin tech and cunty techno

Jon McCray: Schranz, hard techno, acid techno and breakbeat

Downstairs
Agent Provocatuer: Acid techno and Berlin techno

DRESS CODE

Xtasy is a dress-coded, curated kink space. Dressing correctly is part of consent and participation.

Xtasy core dress code always includes leather, fetish wear, lace and lingerie, kink wear, $lutty goth, $lutty rave, and gender-bending looks.

Streetwear, clubwear, and jeans are not allowed. No exceptions. We have the right to deny anyone entry for lack of effort or $ex-positive wear to protect the energy of the space.

TAINTED LOVE: THEMED OUTFIT IDEAS

These are inspirations, not requirements.

Ruined Romance
Smeared or cried-off makeup, outfits worn loose or half-undone, torn fishnets or lingerie, shirts slipping off one shoulder, looks that feel emotional, exhausted, and undone. Cupid hearts cracked or dripping, wings damaged or torn, heart pasties with stitches drawn on.

One Night Stand
Femmes in oversized masculine shirts worn as dresses (think Pulp Fiction energy), underwear paired with boots, sheer silk robes, ripped or hastily removed clothing like you couldn’t wait to get home.

Together
Looks that explore co-dependency, relationship addiction, and the slow loss of individuality. Couples cuffed together or bound by chains, bodies physically linked hip to hip or wrist to wrist. Matching or nearly identical outfits that blur where one person ends and the other begins.

Smothered
Looks that embody being restrained, overwhelmed, or slowly drowned by a relationship. Too-tight corsets that restrict breath and movement, collars and gags worn as symbols of silencing, latex or rubber that clings and smothers the body.

Heartbreak Accessories
Red gloves, heart chokers, darker or messier makeup, love symbols that feel ironic, heavy, obsessive, or cruel.

Corrupted Valentine Mythology
Cupid, Aphrodite and Venus in corrupted, fallen, or feral form. Draw on nature symbolization such as "lovebirds" or roses.

Color Themes
Deep red, dark pink, blackened romance tones. Think lingerie, lace, kink wear, fetish silhouettes, latex, leather, and chains. Romance, but damaged.

General kink wear, fetish wear, lace and lingerie, $lutty goth, and $lutty rave are always welcome at Xtasy.

THE FLOORS

Main Floor
Primary dance floor, social lounge, and gated outdoor smoking area.

The Dungeon (Downstairs)
A dedicated play space with a curated soundscape and trained dungeon staff. To maintain distinct vibes, play is not permitted on the main floor or dance floor and is contained exclusively to the dungeon.

ADDITIONAL DETAILS

Doors open at 8:00 PM. The dungeon runs from 8:00 PM to 3:15 AM. “Arrive Before 9” tickets must be scanned by 9:30 PM or a $19 late fee applies. Any photos you consensually allow our photographers to take may be used for marketing. No refunds unless the event is canceled or rescheduled. By buying a ticket you consent to t to not holding Slut's Party Chi (J&NParties) and Jackhammer (Two Bears Tavern) liable to any personal or property damage done over the course of the event.

SAFETY & VIBE

All tickets are password-protected to maintain a curated community and every guest is vibe-checked before purchasing. The location address is shared only with confirmed ticket holders.

Both floors are staffed with trained consent monitors wearing purple vests. Phone use and photography are strictly prohibited on the dance floor and in the dungeon, with camera stickers placed on all phones at entry.

All staff are professionally trained for play party environments. No volunteers are permitted downstairs. Drink covers will be available throughout the venue.